4 tips to understand reluctant readers

Here’s an idea: instead of telling a kid what they’re missing by not reading, how about validating a reluctant reader’s experience? Affirming their feelings helps you reach them on their terms. 

1. They don’t actually hate reading—they hate how reading makes them feel

Learning to read can be frustrating. Instead of disapproving of their negative feelings, acknowledge how hard it is to learn something new. Share your own experiences trying to master something hard.

2. They don’t need “fixing” . . . 

Reluctant readers aren’t broken. They’re inexperienced. Kids who don’t want to read are just kids whose reading experiences haven’t worked for them yet.

3.  . . . They actually need to struggle

Watching kids struggle through a page, a paragraph, or a short book makes grown-ups want to jump in and help. Encourage but don’t do it for them. The learning comes out of the challenge.

4. Like everyone, they crave success

Give reluctant readers tiny tasks when you read with them: Finish the sentence. Read someone’s dialog. Predict what a character will do next. They’ll feel an emotional reward from completing the task. With the next book, they’ll carry over that feeling of accomplishment. 

Thanks for reading

Every reluctant reader can grow into a more confident reader with the right support. For more practical tips, book ideas, and encouragement, subscribe to The Reluctant Reader Newsletter. If you’d like Beth Bacon to speak at your school, library, or event, get in touch to learn more about her author visits.